Growth Begins Where Excuses End

One of the hardest things you’ll ever do is look in the mirror and say, “That one was on me.”

No excuses.

No blaming.

No pointing fingers.

Just you. Owning it.

We’re not always taught how to do that.

We grow up learning how to defend ourselves, how to explain things away, how to justify our choices.

“It’s because of how I was raised.”

“It’s just the way I am.”

“They made me react like that.”

“I was stressed. Tired. Angry. Triggered.”

And maybe all that’s true.

Maybe you were pushed, provoked, misled, or left feeling like you had no other choice.

But there comes a point where none of that matters as much as what you choose to do next.

You’re not responsible for the things that were done to you.

But you are responsible for what you do with them.

And that’s where growth lives.

Not in being perfect, but in being accountable.

I’ve had to do this myself. More than once.

I’ve said things I wish I hadn’t. Hurt people. Reacted out of fear or pride or pain.

But every time I’ve faced it head-on, owned it, and made it right, I’ve grown.

And the relationships that were strong enough to handle that honesty? They’ve grown too.

Because taking responsibility doesn’t make you weak.

It makes you free.

What does it look like?

It looks like saying:

“I overreacted, and I’m sorry.”

“I didn’t show up the way I should have.”

“That was a choice I made, and I need to make it right.”

“I can see how I hurt you, and I’m willing to change.”

It’s about recognising the pattern before it becomes your personality.

It’s about choosing growth over pride.

It’s about being more committed to doing better than being right.

That’s what real maturity looks like.

Now, let me be clear, this isn’t about beating yourself up.

This isn’t about living in guilt.

This is about being brave enough to say, “I can do better than that.”

And then actually doing it.

No one gets it right all the time.

We all lash out. Fall short. Act on old wounds.

But the moment you stop blaming everyone else, you take back your power.

Because when it’s everyone else’s fault, you’re stuck.

But when you say, “Right, I played a part in that…”

That’s when things start to shift.

That’s when you get to grow up.

Heal.

Learn.

Do things differently.

You don’t need to be ashamed of your mistakes.

You just need to take responsibility for them.

It’s not about being flawless.

It’s about being real, and doing your best to be better.

Own your shit.

Or it’ll own you.

And remember,

keep smiling

Benney the Coach

Being Your Authentic Self – Even When It’s Inconvenient

It’s been a while, I know. And just like a bus, all my ideas came at once. I’ve missed you lot, so I decided to take a little break from writing my new book It’s Okay to Be a Boy and get back to basics, writing my blog.

Today I want to talk about something that’s been coming up quite a lot lately during coaching sessions, in conversations, and in real life, and that’s…

Being your authentic self – even when it’s inconvenient.

Now I’m not here to preach. I’m not perfect. I’m just a bloke who’s lived through a few storms and made a promise to himself to help others weather theirs. And if I’ve learned anything over the years, it’s that being yourself, truly yourself, isn’t as simple as it sounds.

Before I ever became a coach, I was wearing masks. Not just one, loads of them.

There was the funny one, the charming one, the “I’m fine” one, the one that kept the peace, the one that kept people happy, even if I wasn’t.

And here’s the thing: sometimes those masks serve a purpose.

They help you get through difficult situations. They protect you in moments when showing your real self doesn’t feel safe.

But the problem is, we forget to take them off.

We start living in them.

And over time, we lose track of who we actually are underneath.

That’s where I found myself.

Performing off-stage as much as on. Playing roles for people who didn’t even know the real me. Smiling when I wanted to cry. Agreeing when I wanted to scream.

And bit by bit, it wore me down.

That’s why I became a coach. Not because I had all the answers, but because I needed answers myself. I needed to figure out how to live in a way that felt honest. And once I started doing that, I wanted to help others do the same.

But I’m still human. I’ve still got flaws. I still mess up. The difference now? I’m willing to look at those flaws. To either accept them, or work on them.

Because here’s the truth I’ve come to believe:

We don’t need to be perfect.

We just need to be honest.

Honest with ourselves. Honest with how we’re feeling. Honest about what’s working and what’s not.

The world doesn’t need more perfect people, it needs more real ones.

And I believe that your true self, the one underneath the masks, underneath the coping, underneath the survival mode, is good.

It’s strong. It’s kind. It’s enough.

But survival mode? That’s where a lot of us live.

We’re in constant fight or flight. We brace for drama. We expect conflict.

We operate like we’re under threat, even when we’re just trying to have a conversation.

And that way of living? It burns us out. It poisons our relationships. And it keeps us disconnected from who we actually are.

Why is it so difficult?

Because being real means being seen. And being seen is vulnerable.

It’s no longer about how well you can act, it’s about how brave you can be when the script falls away.

But let’s get something clear while we’re at it, because this bit matters.

Being your authentic self isn’t about being rude.

It’s not about slapping on a label, choosing a tribe, and shutting everyone else out.

It’s not about belittling others, shouting your opinions louder than theirs, or expecting the world to accept everything about you while you refuse to accept anything about them.

That’s not authenticity, that’s ego in disguise.

Being your authentic self is about showing up honestly, yes, but with kindness, openness, and respect.

It’s about accepting that we’re not all the same, and celebrating those differences as long as they’re rooted in love, not harm.

If you think your “truth” gives you permission to tear people down, mock others, or live bitter and angry, then you’re not being honest with yourself. You’re defending a wound

Because hate, resentment, cruelty, none of that is who we truly are. That’s survival mode. That’s pain in a mask.

And the work… is learning to take that mask off too.

Underneath all that noise is someone good. Someone kind.

Someone who just wants to be seen, heard, and understood, like we all do.

Being your authentic self means giving yourself permission to grow.

To heal.

To change your mind.

To accept your flaws without making them your identity.

It means learning to live with a bit more heart.

To listen better.

To love deeper.

To speak honestly, but gently.

And to let others do the same.

That’s where real connection lives. That’s where peace begins.

Not in being “right”, but in being real.

And I promise you, that version of you?

That’s the one the world’s been waiting for

So what can you do?

1. Catch yourself in the act.

If you notice you’re performing, nodding along, faking a smile,or getting angry or anxious, just pause and Ask, “Is this me, or is this a mask?”

2. Start where you are.

You don’t need to strip everything away at once. One honest choice a day is enough to begin,

3. Let go of needing everyone to be okay with it.

Your truth isn’t up for debate. You don’t need permission to be real, it’s your choice.

4. Remind yourself that discomfort doesn’t mean danger.

If you’ve lived in fight or flight, peace can feel strange at first. That’s okay. Sit with it, enjoy the moment.

5. Keep choosing the real you.

Flaws and all. Scars and all. That’s the version that will bring you peace. Once you’re truly honest with yourself, you can start being honest with everyone else.

Being your authentic self won’t always feel easy.

It won’t always feel comfortable.

But it will feel true.

And the truth will set you free, even if it makes a mess first.

So if you’re tired of acting, take a breath.

Let the mask slip.

Let yourself be seen.

Be the real one.

And remember,

keep smiling

Benney the Coach

By Benney the Coach

Today I want to talk about something that’s been coming up quite a lot lately during coaching sessions, in conversations, and in real life, and that’s…

Being your authentic self – even when it’s inconvenient.

Before I ever became a coach, I was wearing masks. Not just one, loads of them.

There was the funny one, the charming one, the “I’m fine” one, the one that kept the peace, the one that kept people happy, even if I wasn’t.

And here’s the thing: sometimes those masks serve a purpose.

They help you get through difficult situations. They protect you in moments when showing your real self doesn’t feel safe.

But the problem is, we forget to take them off.

We start living in them.

And over time, we lose track of who we actually are underneath.

That’s where I found myself.

Performing off-stage as much as on. Playing roles for people who didn’t even know the real me. Smiling when I wanted to cry. Agreeing when I wanted to scream.

And bit by bit, it wore me down.

But I’m still human. I’ve still got flaws. I still mess up. The difference now? I’m willing to look at those flaws. To either accept them, or work on them.

Because here’s the truth I’ve come to believe:

We don’t need to be perfect.

We just need to be honest.

Honest with ourselves. Honest with how we’re feeling. Honest about what’s working and what’s not.

The world doesn’t need more perfect people, it needs more real ones.

And I believe that your true self, the one underneath the masks, underneath the coping, underneath the survival mode, is good.

It’s strong. It’s kind. It’s enough.

But survival mode? That’s where a lot of us live.

We’re in constant fight or flight. We brace for drama. We expect conflict.

We operate like we’re under threat, even when we’re just trying to have a conversation.

And that way of living? It burns us out. It poisons our relationships. And it keeps us disconnected from who we actually are.

Why is it so difficult?

Because being real means being seen. And being seen is vulnerable.

It’s no longer about how well you can act, it’s about how brave you can be when the script falls away.

But let’s get something clear while we’re at it, because this bit matters.

Being your authentic self isn’t about being rude.

It’s not about slapping on a label, choosing a tribe, and shutting everyone else out.

It’s not about belittling others, shouting your opinions louder than theirs, or expecting the world to accept everything about you while you refuse to accept anything about them.

That’s not authenticity, that’s ego in disguise.

Being your authentic self is about showing up honestly, yes, but with kindness, openness, and respect.

It’s about accepting that we’re not all the same, and celebrating those differences as long as they’re rooted in love, not harm.

If you think your “truth” gives you permission to tear people down, mock others, or live bitter and angry, then you’re not being honest with yourself. You’re defending a wound

Because hate, resentment, cruelty, none of that is who we truly are. That’s survival mode. That’s pain in a mask.

And the work… is learning to take that mask off too.

Underneath all that noise is someone good. Someone kind.

Someone who just wants to be seen, heard, and understood, like we all do.

Being your authentic self means giving yourself permission to grow.

To heal.

To change your mind.

To accept your flaws without making them your identity.

It means learning to live with a bit more heart.

To listen better.

To love deeper.

To speak honestly, but gently.

And to let others do the same.

That’s where real connection lives. That’s where peace begins.

Not in being “right”, but in being real.

And I promise you, that version of you?

That’s the one the world’s been waiting for

So what can you do?

1. Catch yourself in the act.

If you notice you’re performing, nodding along, faking a smile,or getting angry or anxious, just pause and Ask, “Is this me, or is this a mask?”

2. Start where you are.

You don’t need to strip everything away at once. One honest choice a day is enough to begin,

3. Let go of needing everyone to be okay with it.

Your truth isn’t up for debate. You don’t need permission to be real, it’s your choice.

4. Remind yourself that discomfort doesn’t mean danger.

If you’ve lived in fight or flight, peace can feel strange at first. That’s okay. Sit with it, enjoy the moment.

5. Keep choosing the real you.

Flaws and all. Scars and all. That’s the version that will bring you peace. Once you’re truly honest with yourself, you can start being honest with everyone else.

Being your authentic self won’t always feel easy.

It won’t always feel comfortable.

But it will feel true.

And the truth will set you free, even if it makes a mess first.

So if you’re tired of acting, take a breath.

Let the mask slip.

Let yourself be seen.

Be the real one.

And remember,

keep smiling

Benney the Coach

Making Peace With Your Ego

There’s a part of you that’s always talking. Always trying to prove something. Always comparing, competing, defending, or needing to be right. You might know it as your ego. And if you’ve ever found yourself arguing in your head with someone who isn’t even in the room, then congratulations, you’ve met it.

The ego isn’t evil. It’s not some demon inside you. It’s just misunderstood. It’s your survival mechanism dressed up as your personality. And for a long time, I hated mine. I thought the goal was to destroy it, silence it, rise above it like some enlightened monk floating off into the clouds. But here’s what I’ve learned: you don’t conquer the ego. You make peace with it.

Let’s rewind a bit.

The ego developed when you were young. You needed it. It helped you find your place, get attention, protect yourself from embarrassment or rejection. It told you stories like “I’m not good enough unless I achieve this” or “I’m only lovable if people approve of me.” And those stories stuck. They became your identity.

But identity is a funny thing, it’s both a costume and a cage. And as you grow, the things that once protected you can start to suffocate you.

The ego wants control. It wants certainty. It wants to feel important. So it’ll panic when life doesn’t go to plan. It’ll flare up in arguments. It’ll make you chase validation. It’ll tell you that if someone doesn’t like you, it’s a personal attack. It’ll whisper that you’re not enough unless you’re winning.

And when that voice takes the wheel, you start living reactively instead of consciously. You make decisions out of fear. You keep score in relationships. You defend when you should listen. You perform instead of connect.

So, how do you make peace with it?

First, notice it. Awareness is everything. Start to observe the ego like a separate character in your story. Give it a name if it helps. Mine’s called Barry. Barry’s loud, insecure, a bit dramatic, but I’ve grown quite fond of him. When he pipes up “They didn’t text back, they must be ignoring you” I smile and say, “Cheers Barry, but I’m alright.”

Second, thank it. Yes, thank it. Because your ego was trying to protect you all along. It just didn’t realise you’ve grown now. You’re not that little kid anymore. You don’t need to be liked by everyone. You don’t need to win every argument. You don’t need to be seen as perfect to be enough. The ego doesn’t get that, but you do.

Third, lead with love. When the ego wants to react, pause. Take a breath. Ask: “Am I responding from love, or defending from fear?” That single question will change your life. Because real power is quiet. It doesn’t shout. It doesn’t need to win. It just is.

Making peace with your ego isn’t about being passive. It’s about being conscious. It’s choosing not to be dragged into every battle. It’s understanding that someone else’s opinion of you is none of your business. It’s being okay with not proving your worth every five minutes. It’s dropping the mask and trusting you’re enough, even when you’re not performing.

Some days, Barry still kicks off. He gets jealous. He wants recognition. He panics if things feel uncertain. But I don’t shame him anymore. I just notice him, breathe, and bring myself back to peace.

Because peace isn’t about silence. It’s about knowing which voice to follow.

And the voice of your soul? That one’s quiet. Still. Steady. It whispers, You’re already enough. You don’t need to prove a thing.

Let the ego be part of you, but don’t let it run the show. Be the driver. Be the calm in the storm. Be the one who hears the noise… but chooses peace anyway.

And remember,

Keep smiling.

Benney the Coach

You’re Not Broken, You’re Becoming

Some days, it feels like the world’s cracked you in half and just left you there, holding the pieces, wondering what the hell you’re supposed to do now. You stare at your phone, avoid eye contact in the mirror, maybe even lose count of the coffees (or beers) you’ve poured just to make it through the hours.

But let me say this clearly: you’re not broken.

You’re becoming.

See, nobody gets through life without their fair share of bruises. Some people just get better at hiding them behind filters and nice quotes. The rest of us? We’re in the trenches, doing the work, messing up, getting back up, sometimes crawling more than walking.

And that’s okay.

Real growth doesn’t happen in perfect conditions. It happens when everything falls apart and you’re left with two options: crumble… or change. And change is scary. But it’s also sacred.

You don’t need to be fixed, because you were never broken in the first place. You were just buried under expectations, mistakes, trauma, fear, and everyone else’s idea of who you should be.

Start unlearning that crap.

Let go of the story that says you’re too damaged, too late, too lost. You’re not. You’re unfolding. You’re remembering who you really are underneath all the noise.

So, if today feels hard, keep going. If you’re crying in the shower, you’re not alone. If you’re laughing one minute and doubting yourself the next, welcome to the human club.

And trust me, you’re doing better than you think.

Let’s keep walking this thing together.

And remember… keep smiling.

Benney the Coach

The Ripple Effect of Kindness

Kindness is a simple yet powerful act that can transform not only the lives of others but also our own. It’s a universal language that transcends borders and cultures, and it’s something we can all practice, no matter our background or circumstances. In a world often marked by division and conflict, kindness is the antidote that can bridge gaps and create a more harmonious and compassionate society.

The Beauty of Small Gestures

Kindness doesn’t always require grandiose acts. In fact, it’s often the small, everyday gestures that have the most significant impact. A smile, a kind word, or a helping hand can brighten someone’s day and create a ripple effect of positivity. These acts are not only simple to perform but also contagious, inspiring others to be kind as well.

Benefits for the Giver

Kindness isn’t a one-way street; it benefits the giver just as much as the receiver. When we extend kindness to others, it releases feel-good hormones like oxytocin and reduces stress. It boosts our mood and overall well-being. It reminds us of our shared humanity, fostering a sense of connection and belonging in an increasingly disconnected world.

A Chain Reaction

Kindness has the power to set off a chain reaction. When someone experiences an act of kindness, they are more likely to pass it on, creating a positive domino effect. This chain reaction can transcend boundaries, cultural differences, and social hierarchies. It reminds us that we are all part of the same human family.

Fostering Empathy

Kindness is not only about helping others; it’s also about understanding them. It requires us to step into another person’s shoes, to see the world from their perspective. This empathy is a vital building block for a more compassionate and harmonious society. It can lead to greater tolerance and acceptance of our differences.

Creating a Kinder World

In a world where we’re bombarded with negative news and divisive rhetoric, it’s easy to become disheartened. But kindness reminds us that there’s goodness in the world, too. Each act of kindness, no matter how small, contributes to a kinder, more compassionate world. It’s a collective effort, one that each of us can participate in.

Kindness isn’t a sign of weakness; it’s a manifestation of our inner strength and humanity. It has the power to heal wounds, build bridges, and transform lives. So, let’s make kindness a part of our daily lives. It doesn’t take much to be kind, but the impact it has is immeasurable. As the saying goes, “In a world where you can be anything, be kind.” By doing so, we contribute to a brighter, more harmonious world for all.

Benney the coach

Embracing the future

Hello again my fellow adventurers on life’s winding path! Today, we embark on a liberating journey of leaving the past behind, as we learn to embrace a future teeming with endless possibilities. As a therapist and spiritual life coach, I’m here to guide you through the transformative process of freeing our souls and crafting a future that resonates with our deepest desires.

Unburdening Your Soul and Releasing the Past

The weight of the past needn’t hold us captive any longer. The time has come to embrace the freedom of letting go, forgiving ourselves and others, and shedding the burdens that no longer serve our highest self. In this liberating act, we pave the way for a future unshackled by yesterday’s chains.

Mindful Steps Forward by embracing the Present

As we bid farewell to the past, let’s embrace the power of the present. Each mindful step becomes an anchor, grounding us in the beauty of the here and now. We must savour life’s precious moments and seize the opportunity to sculpt a future guided by mindfulness.

A Journey of Self-Exploration and Discovering our True Selves.

As we untether ourselves from the past, we embark on a journey of self-discovery and take delight in exploring our passions, dreams, and values, for they hold the key to our authentic self. Our future becomes a canvas for our unique expression.

Growth and Resilience, Trusting the Journey

On this path of embracing the future, growth and resilience will be our steadfast companions, Embrace challenges as catalysts for growth, knowing that each obstacle strengthens our wings for the flight ahead. Trust the journey as you grow into a wiser, more resilient version of yourself.

Designing Your Future by Setting Meaningful Intentions

With the past released and the present embraced, we hold the brush to paint the future we envision. By Setting meaningful intentions that align with our newfound sense of self we can manifest our dreams with purpose, as we shape a future that reflects our innermost desires.

Nourishing Our Future by Cultivating Gratitude

In the rich tapestry of our future, gratitude threads its way and by Cultivating this practice of appreciation daily we acknowledging life’s blessings and the lessons they bring. By Nourish the future with gratitude we can find joy and contentment flourishing along our path.

Embodying Transformation by Courageously Embracing Change

The future is a realm of endless possibilities, waiting for our courage to embrace the change it brings. By Being open to transformation it births a world of new horizons and Embodies the bravery to face change head-on, and the future will welcome you with open arms.

Embracing the Future and Unleashing Your Soul

As we embark on this soul-stirring journey, we bid a farewell to the past, freeing ourselves to embrace a future that awaits us with open arms. Releasing the burdens to saver the present, and uncover our authentic self. Trust in growth and resilience, set meaningful intentions, and nourish your future with gratitude. Embrace transformation with bravery as you paint your destiny on the canvas of life. Embrace the future with an open heart, and watch your soul take flight, unshackled and unbound, into a world of boundless possibilities. Happy trails, dear fellow travellers and remember keep smiling.

Benney the coach

Influence.

Not everything we believe to be true is true and not everything we believe to be untrue is an untrue, it all depends on perspective.

What influences you?

Who influences you?

Who do you influence?

I ask these questions because it’s important for us to realise the influences in our lives and how they dictate how we live.

At a young age we learn much about life from our parents, our grandparents, family members, teachers, books, TV, film the list goes on, growing up we have had our lives influenced by many people and things even into our adult lives without even knowing it, we have taken on many of there values and beliefs about what is good and bad, right and wrong, true and false even real and fake and these beliefs and values even echo’s onto who we now influence.

As a coach, I talk with a lot of people that have trouble with living their lives because there belief systems clashes with how they live life and perceive it to be, leaving them unhappy, confused, torn, lost, alone and often depressed. My job is to help people understand that with adjustment to there values and beliefs through looking at why they believe the things they do and how they may not be true beliefs and they may not be serving them as they should be, we can then work together and find a clearer path that’s more rewarding mentally and spiritually for them, creating new values and beliefs along the way.

Every person is different and there is no one-way of changing a belief system to one that’s more relevant and truthful to the individual involved, its down to the individual them selves what they are willing to let go of and what they are open to learn that’s the biggest ask, because it can sometimes bring pain, loss, sorrow, doubt, regret and even fear before it brings strength, happiness, meaning, belonging, self value and love.

Changing our beliefs and values can change our lives in so many positive ways but its not easy, and having a coach supporting you, helping you, guiding you and most importantly believing in you throughout the bad as well as the good times, is an investment not only in your yourself but also in your future.

Geraint Rhys Benney D.P.S. Life and Spiritual Coach

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The Choice

I was asked recently how I keep such a stiff upper lip in times of stress and turmoil, and how I never seem sad or down anymore. Well the answer I gave wasn’t expected, or at least I don’t believe it was. You see, my answer was: I do still stress out at times, I do still feel sad and have bad days just like everyone else does – the only difference is that I don’t let them consume me or ruin my day. I make a conscious decision to stay positive and calm whenever I can. It’s not easy and it’s taken time for me to be able to control my actions and reactions to everyday misfortunes, but anyone can do the same with determination and a little self-belief. It’s all too easy to complain and feel sorry for ourselves, but it gets us nowhere. Life needn’t be a hindrance; life can be amazing if we truly want it to be, and we can live it on our terms.

If you feel you’re getting the sharp end of the stick and life is being a bitch, or if you’ve simply had a guts full of feeling low, why not get in contact? Together we can build a better tomorrow for all of us.

Geraint Rhys Benney Life Coach

Founder of Byw

Nothing is unless we make it so.

We all have different needs, we all have different beliefs – in fact, I’d say we are all as different as can be, but are still the same in many ways. Who we are and how we live is a complicated issue. We all perceive life in various ways, as if living in different realities. Some of us find life’s journey difficult, some of us find it less so; it’s all down to perspective and perspectives can be changed. But whose perspective is right and whose is wrong? Well to be totally honest with you, I don’t believe there is a right or wrong way – we are all guessing. There is no big book of how to live our lives correctly, unless we take religious texts into consideration – but they are only the ideologies of a group of people who hold their own agenda and not a reliable ‘go to’ book. If there was a guide book in my mind, it would have a simple premise: be loving, be kind, be happy, be grateful, be confident and believe. We all know right from wrong, when we should and shouldn’t be doing something. I guess what I’m trying to say is, as humans, we have the ability to make choices in our lives, we can stay or we can go, we can say yes or no, we are not rooted to the spot. ‘Nothing is unless we make it so’ is a statement I truly believe in; it’s the fundamental principle of what I teach and how I live my life. I believe if we live a good, positive life then good things will come to us, and we learn to appreciate life for the beauty and opportunities it brings. Me and you, you and me, we can be who we want to be, and if we shoot our dreams a little too far out into the universe and we run out of time, at least we would have had an amazing journey along the way.

You’re Worth the Effort

When life feels like it’s hit rock bottom, the only way for us to go is back up. Don’t see it as a bad thing, think of all the good that can come also. Life is a game and we can play along randomly, hoping we are playing correctly. We can give up and hide away from it all and pretend it’s not happening, or we can take charge, reinvent ourselves and start living by our own rules. Life isn’t easy and it isn’t fair, but letting it grind us down is a sure way of losing touch with who we are and who we really could be. Mindful Attraction offers us the chance of getting the ball rolling in a journey of self-improvement, self-awareness and burning belief that anything is possible with the power of you. Seeing people improve or change their lives gives me the drive to carry on with what I first thought was just an idea, and by sharing this idea I have touched so many people – not only my friends and family and my class attendances, but people from all over the wold that follow my blog and social media. Sometimes it’s easy to forget why we started something, but it’s ok as long as you remember that you did start and that our journey will not always be steady. Learning along the way is the key to remembering. Never give up on yourself, you are worth the effort.

Geraint Rhys Benney